个人存在
个人存在
First Impressions
What's the first thing you notice about other people?
Is it physicality: body, eyes, smile, voice, handshake, accent?
是他们的外表:衣服,头发,气味,化妆品?
是他们的个性、态度、态度还是行为?
你还记得什么
好 啊。所以这是第一印象。
但你会记得什么?
更重要的是,是什么让你想再次见到那个人?
正面形象
What is it that gets people noticed in a memorable and positive way?
That's what we're talking about here: making a positive impression.
有很多人是令人难忘的,但都是消极的,令人不快的,或无效的。
Presence
Some people, it seems, just have that certain something that's very hard to define, but that makes such an impressive impact that others who are less dynamic fade.
It could be called presence, flair or style; but whatever you call it, they leave you wanting more.
You listen to them at meetings and their contributions and opinions are sought after. And they seem to do this without imposing themselves on others.
Presence Is Not Domination
存在并不是支配,尽管已经说过很难定义,让我们试试。
When someone has presence, they come across as natural - as genuinely themselves.
You believe them.
You feel they are listening to you and taking in what you are saying because they are literally present.
他们很注意。
你已经可以打开你的存在
他们没有面具,也没有“正面”或“侧面”。
You already have the capacity to be more 'present' than you normally are.
你对自己越放松,对自己的贡献越有信心,你就越有风度。
权威与保证
人们会听你的,不是因为你有主见或苛求,而是因为你有权威和自信。
Even when you're not sure!
Saying 'I don't know' confidently, has presence.
Valuing yourself more is the first step to acquiring more Personal Presence.
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